Janalu Jeanes (Parchman)
Steve,
My mother was kinda bossy and would grit her teeth at picky eaters. She insisted that her four children would learn to eat everything she cooked, and would learn to like it all. She was raised/reared in the west Texas countryside, where there was only one town in her large county. Her mother cooked squash, blackeyed peas, okra, cabbage, beets, turnips, greens of all kinds, corn-on-the-cob, homegrown tomatoes, 'new' potatoes, sweet potatoes, etc., etc., and would buy broccoli, asparagus, spinach, etc., from their local store, so she cooked a lot of nourishing veggies for the family, along with meats and cornbread. She was bossy too, and insisted her daughters learn to eat all of it without complaining. She would say, "Just eat it! It's good for you!"
My mother continued the family tradition with us, and by golly! We all like veggies now, even though we didn't when we were young-uns, necessarily. We learned, just as Mom said we would!
I'm reminded of the time in third grade, when my good friend, Sally, was spending a Friday night with me. We sat down at the dinner table with my family gathered as usual, where my Mom had cooked pot roast, squash, okra, mashed potatoes, etc., and as we were passing around the bowls, Sally looked at the okra to ask, "What is this?" I started to laugh and told her, "It's okra, and you're gonna have to eat it or my Mom will not let you leave the kitchen until you do!"
My Mom started laughing too, and said, "Well Janalu! That's not a very nice thing to say! Sally probably will enjoy the okra, won't you Sweetheart?"
Sally just laughed and nodded her head, looking at me with a questioning look. So as she took her first bite, we kids were staring at her to see her reaction, but she swallowed with a smile, and announced, "It's good!"
We all giggled and giggled and told her she could spit it in her napkin if she wanted to! HA! She didn't........
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