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04/08/22 07:24 PM #24175    

 

Janalu Jeanes (Parchman)

David,

So as a Democrat, what is your assessment of Biden?

How about Hillary?  

Do you consider yourself to be a moderate Democrat, as Joe Manchin does?

Have you been a Democrat since your 20s?

What did you think of the Reagan era?   Were you prosperous during the 80s?

What is the number one reason you feel drawn to the Democrats?

Have you ever considered being an Independent?

What do you think of Rep. Omar?   Do you think Congress should look into her history of marrying her brother?

What attribute of Republicans do you dislike the most?

I ask these questions out of curiosity, not as a belittlement of you, as I know that you have every right to believe as you choose, and I respect that right.


04/09/22 08:56 AM #24176    

 

Sandra Spieker (Ringo)

David and Jean,

I found your conversation regarding education and debate interesting and refreshing.  It seems you two can disagree without getting disagreeable about it.  Thank you both.

 


04/09/22 09:47 AM #24177    

 

Sandra Spieker (Ringo)

Some of you might recall, I reached out to A Place For Mom to find a granny sitter and a possible permanent placement for my mom.  I got a follow up email from one such place.  A permanent $1000 discount?  Are assisted living centers hurting for business?  Just want a few thoughts from some of you on this.  Her email is below:

Hey Sandra!  Cathy briefly shared with me an update on mom. Prayers for all of you as you care for her in your home, you are an exceptional blessing for sure!  I just wanted to let you know about our current incentive. We are offering new move ins in the month of April a permanent 1,000.00 discount along with 1,000.00 off for three months. I have only seen them offer this once before. You are the first person I thought of when I  heard this deal . Again, no pressure. Just want to make you aware. I hope this finds all of you doing well.

Blessings,

Melissa Sargent

Executive Director

Brookdale Weatherford (BU 17520)

904 S Lamar St

Weatherford, Texas

Community 817-341-4100

Direct 682-274-6041

 

 


04/09/22 10:21 AM #24178    

 

Lowell Tuttle

Sandra, I would suggest that A Place for Mom is a lead (leed) generating platform much like I see in the property and casualty business.   You go on line, fill out a data sheet, and they then sell that information to the providers who make contacts.   I would suggest there is no shortage of beds, but more a shortage of customers.  Hence, the discounts.   My only argument against this practice is they shouldn't be using the name, "A Place for Mom," as it is sort of sacred to us all....using the word Mom in their marketing.  I wonder if they considered A Place for your Parents...or A Place for Mom and Dad...

That is my cynical analysis.   I used to buy auto insurance leads on line when the practice first started and was successful in in for a while, but they kept giving less and less reliable information to me and the leads got weaker as time went on.   

Some auto insurance rating vacuums (is there any other word with UU?) do connect a customer directly to a carrier of their choice with no agent involvement.   I don't know how that would work with a Place For Mom scenario.

Any lead generating on line process would defend their procedures as being helpful and successful...with ratings and star points.   

Probably, in a larger city, you could count on counselors within the City/County to know good places...or a huge church membership...There might even be a non profit company doing survey's of homes and providers.   Getting past all the crap on line to find a genuine one could be tough.   

Susie found David's place because she walks the neighborhood...was known as a nurse in the hospital nearby, and thus befriended as such...and was reccommended his place.   We didn't do much going around looking.   I suppose we were lucky in that picking.  

On a side note.   David's glucose medicine was -0- co pay when he was under 65 as a retired teacher.   They have a medicare/quasi supplement for retiriess.   We (I) missed the deadline for him setting up social security on line to get medicare.   Hence, the TRS retirement major medical/pharmacy default kicked in from 2 1 2022 to 4 1 2022.  During this time he had a glucose refill and it was 35.00.   Now, on the new TRS/quasi supplement/pharmacy plan, it's 70.00.    Thanks a lot TRS...

Twelve years or so ago TRS retirement started using medicare for A and B...and they have a supplement along with a pharmacy plan...But unlike us, the pharmcy cost with a supplement, though they are separate companies, the premium for part D pharmacy is included...

 


04/09/22 10:58 AM #24179    

 

Jean Renard Ward

David:

I remind myself from time to time that I sometimes make assumptions, or don't check presumptions, in my own thinking.  So perhaps I should presume that it just means I am not significantly less  human than anyone else?

... 

David said:
--> Even in college most students are loathe to take a position counter to the professor's (although perhaps not at MIT).. Much better for the teacher to share a couple of pros and cons and then let the students hash it out. As a parent, I am not at all sure that I would trust many public school teachers to present contentious topics in a way that I would approve.


Response:
A) I suppose one could say that a teacher has (or should have) an obligation to teach critical analysis, to teach the students specifically *not* to reguritate what they have been told, without analysis? At our daughter's college, I was impressed how strong an effort some of her teachers made at that.  (She was a liberal arts major, then got a master's degree in applied theology: I mention that only because of your reference to MIT -- although I wasn't sure what you might be getting at with that.)

B) Teaching critical analysis might require some guidance and examples, rather than just letting students "hash it out" naively.  Otherwise students might just learn how to intimidate others, instead? 


C) I noticed you directed your remark specifically to *public* school teachers:

C.1) As I recollect, we all went to a public high-school, several to public universities.
C.2) Publicly-funded schools (including publicly-funded charter schools) educate most of our voting citizens, so I would think that teaching about contentious subjects at public schools would be *especially* important?  (I think it is called "Civics"?)
C.3) Regarding  "in a way I would approve": This seems tied to the "public school" wording? Our kids went to local public schools here. About "not approving" of what a teacher did:  We worked together with the teachers -- sometimes as a way of working *around*  a particular teacher. That seemed to us to be how the schools worked best.  There were time where we gave the kids a different, or additional perspective at home.

David said:
--> By the way, all three of my sons became Democrats.

Response:  
A) Did you mean specifically "Democrats" (party members) and not "democrats"?   
B) Extra credit: explain the difference (if any?) between a "republican form of government" and a "democratic form of goverment", since both (one via Latin, the other via classical Greek) refer to "rule by the people".


--> You might be surprised at the number of op-ed pieces in The Wall Street Journal are written by liberals. 

Response: 
A) I'm not sure I understand a basis for an assumption or presumption someone would be surprized . I do pick up the WSJ from time to time.   But again, I may tend to read  more  of the reporting articles than  opinion pieces.


--> My concern about WSJ and Fox News is that when Rupert Murdock dies, his heirs will totally change the nature of those entities  and they will become influenced by journalistic group-think.

Response:
A) Well, there would  still be RT! (Joke)
B) May one infer that you are concerned that the WSJ might lose the opinion writers you refer to as liberals?  

--> Jean, tell us what you've been up to in the past 53 years!

Response:

Like you, we've had a few adventures, and some sad events..

We have two kids and two grand-kids, and are a bi-lingual family (including the grand-kids). I still play bassoon. I have seen two total solar eclipses.  I once was at Uluru (Ayer's Rock) in Australia, but honored the request not to climb on it. My brother hidden-carries. I met my spouse while studying overseas: we had an intercontinental  relationship for a good while before we got married.  We are active members in a covenantal congregation, where we raised our kids. I sometimes regret the many foolish things I did when I was younger, and I was younger yesterday than I am today.  My parents are deceased, and also my younger sister.  I might be retired now -- it's hard to tell.   I went to a trapeze school for my 65th birthday, and by the end, was able to get  to the second trapeze more than once without falling off.  We own only one car, and walk to church unless the weather is  really bad. When asked about my favorite color, I usually respond  "plaid": when asked about my favorite Stooge, my answer is  "Shemp". 


04/09/22 12:13 PM #24180    

 

Jean Renard Ward

Sandra:

Taking care of very elderly parents is *not* easy.

Lowell makes good points.

My mother had to change facilities after a serious hospital stay. We were under time pressure to find a new place, because of Medicare time limits, because her previous facility (Juliette Fowler in Dallas) didn't have enough skilled-nursing staff for her recovery, and because I was trying to organize things during short trips down to Dallas.

I wish we had *not* talked to a broker finding a new place: They gave us accurate information on pricing and facilities.  But in retrospect, the most important thing was the personal relationship she would have with the people who cared for her directly.  Not the price, not the fancy furniture in the common rooms: the particular people she would be interacting with was the most important. About that, the broker knew nothing.

Also, in practice, there was often a big difference  between how the activities and programs were described in a facility's brochures or by their sales staff, and how things worked out in practice.

From our experience, I would also be cautious about any place that seems always to have several empty rooms available, or has had appreciable staff or management turnover. Any place that is good, I suspect word-of-mouth references would  tend to keep it full.

We did try to find a place close enough to other family in Dallas, that they could stop by to visit a couple of times a week.

About  price: if a facility already costs something over  $6000/month (as this one did at the time), $1000/month one way or the other for two years (which is about how long she was there before she died) was totally unimportant in comparison.

For what it is worth, the staff at Juliette Fowler was great.   So was the staff at UTSW, much better than at the private hospital near where they lived.  We have come to favor not-for-profit facilities.

We also had in-house help for my parents, the last two years they were in their house together. Although we had no bad experiences at all with the agency we used, the person who worked out best came to us via a personal recommendation: again, because of how they got along personally with my parents.

You are being a responsible care-giver.


04/09/22 02:10 PM #24181    

 

Sandra Spieker (Ringo)

Jean and Lowell,

A Place For Mom, made it very clear in my first conversation with them that they do receive a commission from a facility they recommend if I should choose it.  So far, I have not toured any of these facilities.  I have not had the time.  I have had a long week.  I had to call 911 once again on Tuesday.  This time mother spent the night in the hospital.  Reaction to the antibiotic and pain killers she was on for UTI and pain from a fall.   Medicare kicked her out after 24 hours and she walked 5 feet for the doctors so they agreed.  It was a real rollercoaster getting her home and moving.  Yesterday she was like a champ, today she is sore and weak.  She has "home health" and the RN was here yesterday to evaluate her.  I should get a PT here next week.  I get one visit per week for 30 days.  I have also hired a company to look after her and give me a respite.  They will come to the house as many times per week as a wish, but for now I am opting for one day.  I hope to get that scheduled next week too.  $30 per hour, 4 hour minmum.  I have installed a security camera in her room that I can monitor even when I am not here, to check on the caregiver and mom.  The camera has already saved me from trips to her room in the middle of the night.

I am on the fence about any facility to take care of her should I be unable to handle it any longer.  My experience with two local nursing homes - rehabs, was less than satisfactory.  Once mother is in one of these places I have a whole new set of problems.  Bad food, a week with no showers , 24 hours in a wet diaper, not enough help on weekends and introduction of a whole host of new drugs she never needed before....the list goes on.  If I visit she begs me to get her out of there.   If I call she cries, complains and is depressed.  These were places approved by her insurance and medicare.  They all charge between $5,500 to $6,000 per month.  All of them, even the ones with the worst reviews.  I am leaning toward private assistance at home because of this.  If she must pay out the nose, at least get some quality at home.


04/09/22 02:16 PM #24182    

 

Sandra Spieker (Ringo)

Jean,

I think I remember you from German class or club - not sure which.  I only took one year of German, and dropped the second year because I was intimidated by Frau Mankus.   I did go to the German club meetings and got to know some of the members, but my memories have faded.  You face (your high school face - ha ha) looks familiar.  I did date one member, Robert McCaleb, you might have known him.  He was a 68 grad.  What I do remember about de Frau, was her hankie, which she used and then tucked in her sleeve.  My mother still does that and it gives me the willies when I see her do it.  A reaction like Pavlov's dogs....


04/09/22 05:42 PM #24183    

 

David Cordell

Sandra,

It is easy to have a civil discussion with Jean. He is always civil! No snarkiness. No sarcasm. Just annoying logic! Well, maybe it's not so easy.

Jean,

I think I have mentioned to you that the first time I saw you was the first day of class in ninth grade in our non-air-conditioned sweat-box school. You were wearing a plaid flannel shirt buttoned all the way to the top. I thought to myself, "That guy must be either very dumb, or very smart." It didn't take long to figure it out.

We had some very bright kids at RHS, but there was a clear line of demarcation between the best and the best of the best -- you and Don Fussell being the latter. That was borne out by your respective SAT and National Merit scores. As I recall, one of you was higher in SAT and the other in NMSQT. The number 156 sticks in my mind for the latter for one of you. There were about twelve people in the 140s, but only two in the 150s.

I knew at the time that there were some kids at RHS, especially the very bright, who might have benefited from a different academic environment. Yet when I think about those kids, they all seem to have turned out quite well, excelling academically after high school and even in their personal lives. As a group, they seem to have been more successful in marriage than the average. 


04/09/22 05:42 PM #24184    

 

David Cordell

Jean,

In answer to your question, my children became Democrats. (I was going to write "with a capital D" but the mere thought of it threw me into the score of The Music Man.)

I'm not sure what the difference is between a republic and a representative democracy. Actually, I think the latter is a contradiction in terms. True democracy (with a lower case d) is unworkable. I've always liked this quotation, from Boston-born-Ben.

You have mentioned critical analysis at least twice. One of my favorite quotations is from the autobiography of  Bernard Baruch. (Naturally, a finance guy.) "Knowledge was never an adequate substitute for thought."

On the other hand, thought without knowledge can be rather empty. Worse is critical analysis with "knowledge" that is based on biases inculcated by a teacher who is less interested in teaching critical analysis than in (secular) proselytizing. Example: I wouldn't want my child to be given an assignment to write about race relations after being instructed that he is a white supremicist simply by virtue of being white.

The Wall Street Journal's editorial staff is right-of-center, but not as much as I would like! There are a couple of left-of-center or moderate columnists, and the WSJ publishes op-ed pieces by various Democrats, like economist Alan Blinder, an alumnus of your alma mater. I always like conservative Deroy Murdock's columns. (No relation to Rupert Murdoch. Different spelling and race.)

The news people are not right-of-center, and I think they have been moving leftward. One thing that annoyed me when Bush43 was President. They had at least two different versons of stippled renderings of his portrait that they would post with articles. One was somewhat positive in that was easily recognizable and could have been taken from a publicity headshot. The other made him look like a goofball. Guess which one they used more often.

Murdoch's son and daughter-in-law donated $20 million to groups supporting Biden and opposing Trump. Murdoch's children will do the same thing that the heirs of Ford and Rockefeller did -- take the old man's money and use in in ways that will make him spin in his grave. But they will be invited to all the right parties. And by right, I mean left. (Did that sound cynical??)


04/09/22 07:45 PM #24185    

Kurt Fischer

Seeing today is Bill Sieling's birthday, here's a bit of news.

I had lunch with Bill and George Higginbotham (and their wives) a week ago Thursday.

I was good friends with them in high school and we all attended Texas Tech together, living first in Wells Hall and then in a house of 23rd Street.  

They are both doing well.  George retired a couple of years ago as a flight attendant for American Airlines.  He went to Dallas Theological Seminary and received a ThM degree and then became a flight attendant.  Needless to say, he was very senior by the time he retired and was able to select great overseas destinations for his routes.  He and his wife have lived up in Pottsboro for the last twenty plus years.

Bill retired much earlier as a FAA flight controller.  He and his wife still live in Coppell.  He has a bunch of grand kids and he and Kathy spend quite a bit of time with them.

Anyway, it's his birthday.  Happy birthday to Bill.


04/10/22 10:12 AM #24186    

Jim Bedwell


04/10/22 11:29 AM #24187    

 

Ron Knight

Happy B-Day to Bill Sieling,

Kurt, it's hard for me not to remember Bill's birthday. Bill and I went together to get our mototcycle license on Friday April 9th, 1965. We each rode our Hondas while being foloowed by my mom up to the testing site over by Coit Circle. My birthday was Saturday but I was able to get my license a day earlier!

Also Happy Birthday to Jean Richards on Monday the 11th. And Sandra as well if I'm not mistaken!!


04/10/22 11:29 AM #24188    

Jim Bedwell

David C,

Yes, I was sitting next to Bruce Gilman (lunch? can't remember where just WHAT) when he asked fellow-fairly-new-to-RISD Don Fussell what he had made on the SAT - Bruce and I just kinda looked at each other with big smiles as we realized WHOA NELLY! I hadn't known Don that well by then, but he was always very nice and friendly plus he did seem very smart, but I hadn't realized until that point the extent of it. But just like you were saying about Jean Ward, I paid attention so it wasn't too long until Don really would astonish with some of the stuff he could come up with! Anyway when word got around about that, I think I noticed Dr. Don seemed to have readier access to the intellectual clique, something I never really had, as apropos - tee hee.


04/10/22 03:51 PM #24189    

 

Lowell Tuttle

Looks like Dallas and UT great Scheffler is going to hold off Cameron Smith, and thus blessing us in having a Masters champion without a mullet...I do like Smith's fluffy mustach.  That's all the facial hair I could muster back in my UT non days.   (non in that I enrolled, but did not attend...too much.)


04/10/22 04:44 PM #24190    

 

Jean Renard Ward

Jim, David:

Both of you mention SAT/NMSQT scores:

Well, the high scores probably had psychometric value,  but they weren't really an accomplishment.

Looking back on it, some of the academic awards given out in high school seem not to be awards for anything a student had accomplished or eared by effort, but were rather just awards for just being what they were anyway.    Getting a high SAT or NMSQT score was no special effort on the part of the kids who got a high score -- it was just a description of some aspect that involved no special hard work or long effort on their part. Ditto for being the outstanding student in a subject: in some cases, it wasn't something the student had had to work hard for -- it was just something they happened to have a knack for.

 

(David:)

--> I think I have mentioned to you that the first time I saw you was the first day of class in ninth grade in our non-air-conditioned sweat-box school. You were wearing a plaid flannel shirt buttoned all the way to the top. I thought to myself, "That guy must be either very dumb, or very smart." It didn't take long to figure it out.

(Response:)

I think I may have figured it out: Neither very dumb,  nor very smart.  More likely just very obliviousL: which might count more as being dumb, than being smart?

 

(David:)

--> I knew at the time that there were some kids at RHS, especially the very bright, who might have benefited from a different academic environment. Yet when I think about those kids, they all seem to have turned out quite well, excelling academically after high school and even in their personal lives. As a group, they seem to have been more successful in marriage than the average.

(Response:)

My impression is that the smart kids tend to educate themselves: that may account for "turning out well".

So logically, in a republic, the place for society to invest in would be the other kids.

I have heard some people say that, because the masses are uneducated and don't think critically, democracy is a very bad idea.

... Perhaps instead, that just means society needs to focus its investments in education of the masses?     Also, looking globally, my impression is that countries that are richer overall tend to have higher levels of general education, so if you want increase your likelihood of being wealthy in absolute (versus relative) terms, you should work to support public edication of the masses?

...

(David:)

--> On the other hand, thought without knowledge can be rather empty. Worse is critical analysis with "knowledge" that is based on biases inculcated by a teacher who is less interested in teaching critical analysis than in (secular) proselytizing. Example: I wouldn't want my child to be given an assignment to write about race relations after being instructed that he is a white supremicist simply by virtue of being white.


(Response:)

Have you seen that happen, first hand?

If so, depending just on how you look at it,  perhaps that could be used as an excellent teaching moment, to talk to one's kids about other perspectives.  As adults, we often encounter people who say stupid things, and our kids do outside of school as well.  The teaching moment could be opportune.

I think we allo may have heard some preposterous things from some of our teachers back in high school, as well: as one example,  I heard some passing remarks regarding race.

As a practical matter with our kids, we have always felt we were part of our kids' intellectual and philosophical educations, by interacting with them at home.  Our kids classes and youth group programs at our church did, as well. Education is not limited to one's week-day schooling.
...

(David: about right-of-center / left-of-center at WSJ)


--> Murdoch's son and daughter-in-law donated $20 million to groups supporting Biden and opposing Trump.

(Response:)

I think read someplace Dwight Eisenhower was solicited as a nominee by both dominant parties, and decided to run as a Republican instead of a Democrat, mostly because he wanted to preserve a two-party system in the interests of maintaining democracy.  He continued the massive public-works philosophy of Franklin Roosevelt: for example the national highway system, and massive federal involvement in public education (particular in science).    Both were presented as in the interests of nationa defense, but I have wondered whether that could have been in part a manouver to get more political support.

So, one could hypothesize the Murdoch family members had a similar philosophical motivation: they weren't working really to Biden or the Democratic Party, so much as working to preserve "regular order" in our national political system (as I think John McCain put it?).

 

--> Murdoch's children will do the same thing that the heirs of Ford and Rockefeller did -- take the old man's money and use in in ways that will make him spin in his grave. But they will be invited to all the right parties. And by right, I mean left. (Did that sound cynical??)

(Response:)

Well, among other things, it sounds like  you are making a presumption about Murdoch's children.

But in any case:

Simple solution -- if want to control things after you die,  then don't leave the power of your wealth to your kids.  By the time you write your will, you probably have a sense of their philosophies, so if you turn the power of your wealth over to them, you did it with that in mind.

(David: Benjamin Franklin "A republic, if you can keep it.")

(Response:)

I think this was saying there would be no hereditary elite.  Etymologically, "republic" and "democracy" have the same base meaning, it is just that one comes from Latin and the other from classical Greek. (See "Extra Credit" note from previous posting.)

Ben Franklin was of "low birth", as it was termed at the time. I think he tried hard to get into the hereditary elite when he was in Britain, but couldn't get in.

 

 


04/10/22 05:56 PM #24191    

Jim Bedwell

Jean,

I agree with you on the test scores. But I was accused by Steve Keene on this forum of thinking everybody was about as smart as their SAT/GRE/etc.scores. However, I neglected to mention at the time that I learned in college that the reason those 2 particular tests use the combination of verbal & math ability is that those test results correlate most highly with the standard IQ tests, Stanford-Binet, Wexler, whatever. Now of course we know that those IQ tests don't cover all aspects of intelligence or mental prowess so there's that. Very creative and/or arts people often don't do well perhaps on IQ tests? Isn't that a common perception? I don't know the answer - that would be a Tommy question. At any rate, I think I'm following the science on the SAT/GRE, contrary to Steve's complaint about me.

But right, doing well on those tests, that just reflects your native ability that the Creator blessed you with; what you do with that is the real accomplishment, or lack thereof. Someone should tell Hillary that just getting elected is not necessarily something to crow about - but she knows that no matter what she said. Anyway that's why I often thank Him for not giving me as much as others in certain categories since ".........From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked." (Luke 12:48 NIV). Hahahaha! And it's certainly not an equal distrubution of anything Bell-curved, as we well know, right?. I'm amazed at how richly God has blessed this forum's sponsor, for example, with so many qualities/attributes/gifts - I just hope he gets my name right in his will!

Also as I've stated before on this forum, I've known or observed in school 7 or 8 genius-IQ young people, since we moved around a lot, and I attended 3 different colleges/universities, and you're the one I probably knew the least, as in not at all as you know, but it's also science from my understanding that of every 8 geniuses, 7 are men. That Marilyn vos Savant, though, in my view, may very well be the smartest person alive.

Speaking of distributions, the first law of economics is scarcity. There's never of enough of anything to satisfy human demand, as we're being reminded currently with the national & world situations. The first law of politics is to ignore the first law of economics.


04/10/22 10:08 PM #24192    

 

David Cordell

Last night Martha and I went to a concert by the Barricade Boys. They are four British and Scotish singer-actor-dancers who have appeared in various major productions of Les Mis, althought they have been in other shows, too. One played the lead in Phantom for over 1,000 performances, and he sang a wonderful rendition of Music of the Night. Another played Marius in Les Mis in more performances than anyone else. All had great voices.

They sang three songs from Les Mis, but also songs from many other Broadway/West End shows as well as medleys of Motown, Rolling Stones, and Beatles songs. It was great fun, and we even saw classmate Pam Pearce Landy there. Afterward Martha bought a CD, and I took this photo.


04/11/22 01:50 AM #24193    

 

David Wier

Jana:

So as a Democrat, what is your assessment of Biden?

Not the greatest president, but I have agreed with a lot of his changes from the Trump era. I also know that oil is a commodity - much like stocks which rise and fall at the whims and fears of the buyers, and have no direct cost result from the president

How about Hillary?  

I never voted for her and never will

Do you consider yourself to be a moderate Democrat, as Joe Manchin does?

Moderate, however, I think the Build Back Better Plan should have been passed and I disagree with Manchin and whoever the other Senator was.

Have you been a Democrat since your 20s?

No only recently, though I really don't remember what I said I was back then. My family was always republican, so that's what I though I was. I WAS totally antiwar back then. I do remember that

What did you think of the Reagan era?   Were you prosperous during the 80s?

I was not particularly prosperous during the 80s, but I was totally down with Reagan at the time - especially his religious views

What is the number one reason you feel drawn to the Democrats?

Too many reasons to list here, but I'm tired of hearing that any one of those reasons I agree with that Democrats are for makes for a socialist country. I'm sick of that.

Have you ever considered being an Independent?

Actually, most of the last 50 years, I considered myself an independent. I always looked at the things that the people running espoused and not the party they were espousing.

What do you think of Rep. Omar?   Do you think Congress should look into her history of marrying her brother?

In my opinion, too far left and most of what she wants will never happen here. To be perfectly honest, I've never heard about here "marrying her brother".  If it's true and happened in her origin country, we should ignore it. If it happened here, something should be done since it's agains the law.

What attribute of Republicans do you dislike the most?

The fact that most of the Republicans I've been in contact with are as far right as the radical democrats are left. They are the ones that are ruining the Republican party by not being reasonably moderate, working with the Democrats instead of vilifying them. I actually believe the SPLIT in the country was instigated much by Obama. I think Trump built on that fire and made it much worse. I don't dislike everything Trump did. I do think if a person crosses our border illegally  -  it's not legal and they should not be allowed in. I DO think that one of the fires he stoked was the racist fire and the split and the attack on the Capital (Jan 6) was all race related, unfortunately.


04/11/22 10:28 AM #24194    

 

David Cordell

Sorry about the length of this set of back-and-forth responses. Probably only Janalu will read all the way through!

Jean

Looking back on it, some of the academic awards given out in high school seem not to be awards for anything a student had accomplished or eared by effort, but were rather just awards for just being what they were anyway.    Getting a high SAT or NMSQT score was no special effort on the part of the kids who got a high score -- it was just a description of some aspect that involved no special hard work or long effort on their part. Ditto for being the outstanding student in a subject: in some cases, it wasn't something the student had had to work hard for -- it was just something they happened to have a knack for.

David's response:

Disagree. Example: Ron Peshock and Tommy Thomas shared the outstanding math student award. Both are very bright guys, but is it possible that they outworked you and Don Fussell?

 

(David:)

--> I knew at the time that there were some kids at RHS, especially the very bright, who might have benefited from a different academic environment. Yet when I think about those kids, they all seem to have turned out quite well, excelling academically after high school and even in their personal lives. As a group, they seem to have been more successful in marriage than the average.

Jean's response:

My impression is that the smart kids tend to educate themselves: that may account for "turning out well".

David's response:

Bright kids typically have bright parents, and that is truly a blessing. They get a lot at home.

I think the very bright kids needs to be challenged to develop their talents. They benefit from “special” education. What’s more, I think “the Republic” benefits from helping the brightest become extremely well educated.

Separately, of the 12 National Merit semifinalists in our class, I believe that four became physicians, four became attorneys, and one earned a PhD and became a professor. Both of the two of us who finished one point out of the running earned PhDs.

By the way, I see that MIT is reinstituting use of the SAT. Part of the justification is to help identify minority students who would benefit from an MIT education. Here is my translation: “We will identify the top students in a color-blind way, using the SAT. Then we will have a second, lower standard for minority students to show that we are good people.” By minority, I don’t include Asian students who are vastly overrepresented at top schools because they are, well, better than the white students as a group. We have three high schools in Plano, and the valedictorians and salutatorians are always Indian-Americans and Chinese-Americans.

Jean:

So logically, in a republic, the place for society to invest in would be the other kids.

I have heard some people say that, because the masses are uneducated and don't think critically, democracy is a very bad idea.

... Perhaps instead, that just means society needs to focus its investments in education of the masses?     Also, looking globally, my impression is that countries that are richer overall tend to have higher levels of general education, so if you want increase your likelihood of being wealthy in absolute (versus relative) terms, you should work to support public edication of the masses?

David's response:

My casual observation is that public education has become a race to the bottom. No one is allowed to fail because it might harm their self-image. Boo-hoo. That said, my wife taught at an elementary school that was heavily Asian. The white kids were considered to be the droolers. At the time, it was the second highest achieving elementary school (based on standardized tests) in the state. (Don’t say, “Then it still would have been in the bottom half in Massachusetts.”) Those kids were smart and had smart parents. Lots of the kids went to “Chinese School” on Saturdays.

There were two particular  incidents when Martha taught in low socio-economic, low-achieving schools.

1.    In about 1975 in Austin, she had a conference with a mother and suggested that she work with her kindergarten child on his colors and numbers. The response: “I don’t teach him nuthin’ at home. That’s what I send him to school for.”

2.    In about 2005, at the end of the school year she sent a note to parents with a suggested reading list for the summer. One mother’s response: “Don’t you think he’s read enough this year?”

With regard to education, it takes a lot of effort and money to overcome what is lacking in the home.

...

(David:)

--> On the other hand, thought without knowledge can be rather empty. Worse is critical analysis with "knowledge" that is based on biases inculcated by a teacher who is less interested in teaching critical analysis than in (secular) proselytizing. Example: I wouldn't want my child to be given an assignment to write about race relations after being instructed that he is a white supremacist simply by virtue of being white.


(Jean's Response:)

Have you seen that happen, first hand?

 

David' response:

No, I'm not in position to see it first hand, and I hope it is not happening here. Maybe I should wander over the the school district headquarters. However, I have seen TV reports of teacher education materials that I consider antithetical to the MLK concept of being judged by the content of their character rather than the color of their skin. I favor color-blindness, but it seems that the left is pushing educational segregation – different treatment according to skin color.

Jean:

If so, depending just on how you look at it,  perhaps that could be used as an excellent teaching moment, to talk to one's kids about other perspectives.  As adults, we often encounter people who say stupid things, and our kids do outside of school as well.  The teaching moment could be opportune.

I think we allo may have heard some preposterous things from some of our teachers back in high school, as well: as one example,  I heard some passing remarks regarding race.

David:

Before we played a football game against a more integrated school, I heard one of the football coaches refer to the black players as Hawaiians.

Jean:

As a practical matter with our kids, we have always felt we were part of our kids' intellectual and philosophical educations, by interacting with them at home.  Our kids classes and youth group programs at our church did, as well. Education is not limited to one's week-day schooling.

David:

I wish I had taken a more active role in my children’s philosophical education.
 


04/11/22 02:00 PM #24195    

 

Jean Renard Ward

David:

You are right, this is a lot of longish back-and-forth.

Perhaps we might take mercy on the other readers of the forum, and save some of this until the next re-union?

... I don't think many of these topics will have gone away by then!

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(Jean, previously:)

--> As a practical matter with our kids, we have always felt we were part of our kids' intellectual and philosophical educations, by interacting with them at home.  Our kids classes and youth group programs at our church did, as well. Education is not limited to one's week-day schooling.

(David, previous response:)

--> I wish I had taken a more active role in my children's philosophical education.

(Response:)

If that is the *only* thing you regret about how you raised your kids, you did FAR BETTER than we did!

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(David/Lance, about some high school awards not being "earned", but just given for what you were already)

--> Disagree. Example: Ron Peshock and Tommy Thomas shared the outstanding math student award. Both are very bright guys, but is it possible that they outworked you and Don Fussell?


(Response:)

Actually, I was not in any math courses that year, so I wasn't even eligible.  Under doctors' instructions I dropped out of several things, like the AP Calculus class and my (freakish) election as class Secretary.  In no way would I want to imply that Ron and Tommy specifically had not earned the recognition.

I'll volunteer at least *some*of the recognition I got as being just for some knack I had, not something I had to work to get.  Not All-State Orchestra though -- I worked for that one!
 
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(David:)

--> Separately, of the 12 National Merit semifinalists in our class, I believe that four became physicians, four became attorneys, and one earned a PhD and became a professor. Both of the two of us who finished one point out of the running earned PhDs.

(Response:)

I agree, I am among the low-achievers in that crowd.

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(David:)

--> By the way, I see that M.I.T. is reinstituting use of the SAT. Part of the justification is to help identify minority students who would benefit from an M.I.T. education. Here is my translation: “We will identify the top students in a color-blind way, using the SAT. Then we will have a second, lower standard for minority students to show that we are good people.” By minority, I don’t include Asian students who are vastly overrepresented at top schools because they are, well, better than the white students as a group. We have three high schools in Plano, and the valedictorians and salutatorians are always Indian-Americans and Chinese-Americans.

(Response:)

I suspect it's a bit more complicated.  M.I.T. sent out a notice in the alumni news in 2020/2021, they they were temporarily suspending the requirement for SAT math scores during COVID, because so many of the SAT tests had been cancelled, until the tests became available again.  So, no policy change.  I think they said they had worked out some "statistical proxy" for the SATmath scores -- M.I.T. folks tend to be good mathematical modeling, so not surprizing they would try something that "tracked" SAT math scores.

Related: all M.I.T. classes went virtual during COVID, with students not required to be in residence, strict testing and isolation rules for those that were -- like most of the other colleges around Boston.  I recollect reading that the biggest practical problems at M.I.T. were the biochemistry and biology lab sources -- hard to do virtually!

As a point of reference, my recollection is that  M.I.T. had done studies at various times over the decades about  the best predictors to apply when considering students for undergraduate admission. The performance metric was how well a predictor correlated with actully finishing an undergraduate degree at M.I.T. within some number of years -- so a student transferring out was counted the same as a drop out.

Of all the factors evaluated -- private vs. public high school, parents' income, parents' acaemic status, extracurricular record, gender/sex, teacher recommendations, section of the country,  ethnicity/race, US vs. internanal student, high school GPA (adjusted for academic level of the school) -- the only thing with a reallly strong positive correlation was SAT math scores.  

... I suspect that that could be seen as just being consistent with the need to have a "knack" for math, just because of the subjects students tend to major in at M.I.T.   It would also be consistent with identifying applications who might be successful, regardless of background -- again, specific to the SAT math scores only, and specific to M.I.T.'s particular situation.

 

Just curious: I read UT had switched to admitting the top two students of every public high school in Texas, regardless of test scores.  Any word on that?


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(David:)

--> There were two particular  incidents when Martha taught in low socio-economic, low-achieving schools.

--> 1.    In about 1975 in Austin, she had a conference with a mother and suggested that she work with her kindergarten child on his colors and numbers. The response: “I don’t teach him nuthin’ at home. That’s what I send him to school for.”

--> 2.    In about 2005, at the end of the school year she sent a note to parents with a suggested reading list for the summer. One mother’s response: “Don’t you think he’s read enough this year?”

--> With regard to education, it takes a lot of effort and money to overcome what is lacking in the home.


(Response:)

I agree with that last sentence, with the observation that it might point out where and how the social investment should be made.

Also that parental respect for education is vitally imporant.

My spouse is from a different country, and describes her family background as working class (if not just "peasant").  Neither of her parents had any schooling past the 8th-grade basic education track for non-academic students.

So, we talk about differences in the educational systems there and here. For example:

*) U.S. schools teach rote memorization more, and  teach acritical thinking and political history less, at all levels.
*) U.S. schools rely much more on test scores when assigning students to tracks, there they rely on personal teacher recommendations. (Which can have its own side-effects.)
*) U.S. schools are run and financed by the local towns or districts, versus run and financed centrally at the state level. Here,  this leads to greater differences in school quality depending on where you live, which is a proxy for how much money the family has.
*) U.S. has a lot more private schools and universities, financed by better-off parents.  There they have always had a lot of not-for-profit independent schools and universities, but they are more like public charter schools with the tuition costs (including boarding) paid by the local state, so the parents' income doesn't really play a role.
*) The U.S. is generally *terrible* at trades education.

She has commented that the huge changes of more and more students over the last decades going to university there, have been successful -- not because  of money being spent directly on the schools, but because of national social programs to reduce economic inequity, basically by giving working class families a middle-class living.  That could be seen as consistent  with your observation about home background being so important.  It also might be like how the G.I. Bill after WW II worked: in effect, that was a national social program, because right after WW II almost everyone qualified as a military veteran or family member.

... plus,  like we have heard about Latin America, over there public school teachers are (still) highly respected, and comparatively well paid.  You are right that family respect for education is important.

 

 


04/11/22 03:33 PM #24196    

 

Janalu Jeanes (Parchman)

David Weir,

Thanks for answering my questions.  You seem to have given honest, thoughtful responses, and I appreciate that about you.

The reason that Biden is getting a lot of grief about the oil issue, is  because he shut down the Keystone Pipeline, and because he scuttled so much of the oil industry that the industry is now almost non-existent, at a time when we NEED the oil so much here in our country, but are having to BEG for it from other countries, many of which are our enemies.  You'll have to agree, will you not, that THAT makes ZERO sense.  So that is why our citizens are now accusing Biden of working at cross-purposes of what we actually need here.

Also, Rep. Omar did in fact marry her brother in her effort to get him into our country, knowing full well that she was doing it illegally.  She wanted to have him here to be able to get into our education system, which she did actually accomplish, so he received a good education for middle school years and high school years, at the expense of American taxpayers, which was NOT what we Americans agree with.  He then left our country and went to live in England, so I guess the English folks are grateful to us that the guy has some fairly good education.  (HA!)   The thing about Ms. Omar, is that she constantly commits naughty acts against what we would expect from our Congress people.  She is a disgrace to our system, in my opinion.  You can get general facts about what she has done, just by looking at Wikipedia, if you wish.  The point that erks me so much about her, is that she has not been reprimanded in any way, even though we KNOW what she has done, and, I suppose, she will be running for re-election soon.

As for the huge package that the Democrats were trying to get pushed through, it was a gigantic, enormously costly package deal, that was stuffed with programs that were just needless items that were not necessary for us to have at this time, when our inflation is already costing citizens too much money in their daily lives. AND, it would have continued to cost enormously, our kids and our grandkids, since the whole cost of it would have gone on for many, many years.   We just didn't see the need for the whole package as it was written, even though it had some good aspects within.  It should have been slimmed down, and it should have been in accordance to what was truly needed.  

You are, I feel, the kind of Democrat with which I can have reasonable discussions.  You are not radical, and you have good sense.  Thanks again for your answers.

 


04/11/22 05:55 PM #24197    

 

Steve Keene

Happy Birthday Bill Sieling and Sandra Ringo and Ron Knight!

My present to you all is a post that does not look like War and Peace.


04/12/22 07:47 AM #24198    

 

David Cordell

A lurker furnished this link to an article in The Atlantic that relates to Jean's and my discussion of the SAT at MIT. Written by a psychology professor at UT Austin.

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2022/04/mit-admissions-reinstates-sat-act-tests/629455/?utm_source=pocket-newtab


04/12/22 12:49 PM #24199    

 

David Cordell

Saw an interesting movie on Netflix called The Adam Project with Ryan Reynolds, Jenifer Garner and Mark Ruffalo. It is about time travel, but there is poignant stuff along side the action. Enjoyed it.

For guys only --

Have you ever tried to solve a "problem" for your wife/significant other?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg


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