David Cordell
Lance,
I will offer my comments intersperse in red within your post, reproduced below.
After dozens of similar posts, we ALL understand your bent toward "earning a living".
I don't know what you are talking about. What does this refer to? The Tiger Woods quotation? I thought it was great. Still do. None of us should feel entitled.Everyone should strive to do their best. I have often said that I have no right to complain about hitting a bad shot on the golf course -- I don't practice enough. It is an insult to someone who works hard to suggest that I should have the same outcome without the same effort.
Nonetheless with 50M + Americans on the dole, there are just as many legitimate NEEDS for hand-outs as hand-ups.
Yes, there are many people who are in need through no fault of their own. However, Woods's comment wasn't directed to or intended to reflect on people on the dole. He was talking about what it takes to excel. I think his comment can be extrapolated to any endeavor.
Also after years of enduring your arrogant inflexibility, including your refusal to appreciate that I (or others here) can teach you anything...it would be refreshing to read your posts of those who get undeserved hand-outs...but subsequently pay-it-forward.
Arrogant inflexibility?? Hmm. I'll have to think about that. At the very least, I can add it to the lists of insults you've hurled my way. You may not even have recognized the insult folded into a complement in your post #25446: "Firstly while 'between homes' in moving from the Dallas suburban life to the City life, it was a sobering experience to enjoy the warmth of the Cordell's hospitality vs. his colder persona here often portrayed on the Forum!" I actually received three emails objecting to your specifying that I have cold persona. It was rather gratifying to receive those emails.
Regarding your allegation that I don't think anyone can teach me anything, I think you are badly mistaken. I spent a whole career that as a scholar, which requires constant learning. However, after Martha read your post, and knowing that we had invited you into our home for five nights, she said to me, "Will you never learn?"
Also, your snarky comment to me regarding Steve and Tommy is unproductive, and needs to be deleted.
You mean you were serious?? I thought you were joking since Steve made it abundantly clear that he had no interest in teaming up with Tommy. Do you really feel that you have all the answers for others' relationships? Are you successful in your relationships?
In my view and from their many posts over the years, both of these friends "appear to do very well" when they actually invest in a breakfast together to refresh their fellowship...political differences aside.
So, you really think you know what is best for Steve?
Obviously this is none of my damn business.
At the very least, I don't think it is appropriate for you to provide this type of counseling in a public forum, putting pressure on one of the principals to respond to your suggestion.
And yet at this time in their friendship, there is a mutual necessity and excellent opportunity to leverage their re$ources toward a new shared adventure in life at age 70!
I took the risk to move to a Midrise apartment...and am happy for it.
I'm not sure that leasing an apartment makes you qualified to give good advice to others about whom they should live with.
Lastly as a cautious reminder, this Forum (like most online communities) has become the dumping ground for human emotional joyless expression.
Once again, you insult the Forum, which is an insult to those who post and those who read, although I strongly suspect that it was intended as an insult to me. I can't emphasize enough that there is at least one other site that would welcome your commentary and especially your insults of me. To be perfectly candid, though, this business of lashing out when you are angry at me reflects much more on you than on me.I thnk you should have figured that out by now.
Let's feed ourselves a healthy Daily Bread, before drifting back to our complacent addiction of mindless posting here on the RHS Forum.
Combining an insult with a religious reference?? Again, it is an insult to me, but also to everyone else, except maybe to you. Do you really feel that your posts are somehow above the typical "mindless posting"?
Really, Lance, you should find another social media outlet that meets your standards and provides you with greater opportunities for self-actualization.
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