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10/28/20 07:51 PM #19291    

 

Steve Keene

David and Bob D.

My daughter just had a mediation in her husband's child custody and support case on zoom. The positives are that the mother did the case from Dalhart and my daughter's husband did the case from their home in Dallas.  The upside is neither of the opposing parties even had to see each other and separate zoom channels with the attorneys for the parties were used.  Then the mediator made his decision and the two parties signed off online with docusign.

David C,

Getting into the GMC Hummer is a cinch with the crabwalk feature.  You stand on a stool, remote start the vehicle and let it crabwalk over to you and you step in.  No climbing or assistance required.  I can even imagine setting up a zipline system that I crabwalk the vehicle sideways to and hook on a cable and slide directly to my front porch.  I agree that Hollis would make a great house sitter, but I have difficulty picturing her managing the dynamics of the other members of your household.  I imagine there would be a lot of rapped knuckles with a big foot long ruler.


10/28/20 11:06 PM #19292    

 

Lowell Tuttle

This was on facebook's Remember Richardson when this evening....

I miss Niel Matson.  He was a friend and a coach.   The first year of the RHS swim team it was a club associated with RHS, I think, not an actual UIL swim team.   I know by our senior year, though, it was the official school swim team.

We trained 4-5 nights a week at Perkins Natatorium (SMU.) 

Good memories.


10/29/20 10:38 AM #19293    

 

Bob Davidson

Steve,

I am involved in a couple of family law mediations each week, as either mediator or lawyer for a party.  Probably half of them now involve zoom.  The one yesterday afternoon had the other side at the mediator's office and me and my client at my office. The one tomorrow has everyone at the mediator's office -- she has plastic dividers around both of her conference tables and requires everyone to wear a mask.  Without very extenuating circumstances -- like your daughter may have had, I have the client with me at the office if we are appearing by zoom.  That way I know that I have his/her full attention and we can look at documents together, do calculations, etc. I also ask the lawyers to be physically present with their clients when I am the mediator.

Family law mediations in Texas are almost always done "caucus style" -- where the parties are in separate rooms and the mediator goes back and forth between them, with their respective offers, counter-offers, and questions. The parties seldom meet face to face, but it is common for the mediator and the lawyers to meet together apart from the clients.  Zoom is convenient, but the lack of personal contact with the mediator and between the lawyers takes a lot of the effectiveness out of the process.  The other thing I don't like is that people are generally very smug when they are sitting at home in front of a computer screen -- it's way easier to say something stupid like "we'll just take it to trial" or "I'd prefer to have the judge decide" in that circumstance.  [What that really means is "Let's spend $10,000 or more each, spend days putting together tedious paperwork, then suffer through a mean (son of a) bitch asking me humilliating questions framed in an almost unimaginably ugly way that I have to answer in public, and then, after my spouse and I have both been shown to be lowlife creeps, let a bored and hostile stranger decide my relationship with my children, which of my things I get to keep, and my future finances."  Because the opposing side gets to ask leading questions and the rules of evidence strictly limit the way they can be answered, a trial is no fun for anyone but the lawyers. That's also why trial lawyers aren't really fit companions for normal members of the general public.]

The other very negative thing about zoom is that we can't tell who is there with the litigant.  The mediation rules strictly limit who can be there -- no support groups or parents or best friends who were once paralegals in New Jersey.  Usually current spouses are allowed, but not others.  Obviously, people have phones and make calls, but this is not the same as having someone physically present in the room.  Some mediators allow other people to be there, but they go out in the lobby while the mediator is present with the client.  A third party's presence eliminates the attorney-client privilege protections so this is vital.  


10/29/20 10:47 AM #19294    

Debbie Cathey (Havens)

David
Wow what a discovery! Life is full of the unexpected.
Janalu, did you see where over $2 million was jacked away from Trump reelection fund? Unbelievably low. As far as MSM's lack o reporting the Tucker interview goes, I am not the least surprised. Just shows how far left they have gone. Corruption in the MSM is placing our Democratic Republic in jeopardy. If we did not have FOX, OAN, and Newsmax, no one would have fair repirting of events that we have a right to know. As long as FB and Twitter can get away with censoring what doesn't fit with their ideological propaganda, American freedoms will continue to slip away. So sad.

Personal note: Husband is almost out of quarantine, doing well. I am doung ok too, but also tested positive with a milder case. I have 6 days more of quarantine. Also, please pray for a friend who is a priest/teacher in a Reformed Episcopal Church/School whete I taught and now am mentoring (bus email now...) a new teacher. He and his sweet wife, pregnant with tjeir 1st daughter, found their 2 yr old son diseasesed in his bed at naptime. They are of course devastated. Those of us who have gone through the grief of having a child "go on before us" understand the indescribable grief that comes with this inconceivable loss. Please pray for God's comfort for them and their other 4 boys and extended family. Pray for protection over their unborn daughter and Sara's welfare. Thank you.

10/29/20 07:12 PM #19295    

 

David Cordell

Debbie, prayers coming your way.

Also, last I heard, David Wier's grandson was stable. 

Bob D., I enjoyed your description, but I don't understand why you would want to continue doing that work until you kick the bucket. I think I'd rather kick the bucket now to stop the pain!!

By the way, classmate David Seidler also does mediations, including one involving the "affluenza" perp.


10/30/20 12:34 AM #19296    

 

Janalu Jeanes (Parchman)

Debbie,

I agree with your post, and am glad to hear you and your husband are healing well from the virus of no end (it seems!) 

I have prayed for your friends who have experienced tragedy, and for the health of the Mom and daughter.  Will continue.

Looks like we may all have to eat our Thanksgiving dinners on TV trays before the TV, since we are expected to eat just with our spouses, and we're all caught up on our casual conversations, having already spent our hours together for months.  We can look at each other and figure out what we're about to say, without opening our mouths!

Thought it was funny in the last debate between Trump and Biden, when Biden told Trump he had/has done a terrible job of handling the pandemic.  But when Trump asked Biden, "Okay, Joe.  What would you do about the pandemic,"  Joe answered, "Have citizens wear masks, distance, and use plexiglass."

So I was wondering how Joe's answer was any different from what Trump has done with the Trump recommendations?  Fauci already told us to wear masks and distance long ago, and to wash hands frequently.  Plexiglass is already being used in quite a few places, but you have to wonder just how much good that does, since the virus doesn't just hit the plexi and kill itself!  It goes beyond the plexi, and is floating as minute particles in the air for a long while.  So it seems to me, there is no answer as to how to be safe, other than what we have already been doing!  What could Joe do that would quarantee any difference, except to shut the economy down again, which our citizens don't want?!  It appears that the only thing that will really help, is to get the vaccine as soon as possible, but we have already learned that Trump HAS done that, in that he has gotten the drug companies to work on the problem as quickly as they can!  But no one ever mentions that the vaccine issue is almost ready, due to Trump!   Most only say, "Trump has done a miserable job at managing the pandemic!"  What the heck?

 

 


10/30/20 02:24 AM #19297    

 

Steve Keene

Janalu,

I bet Biden doesn't know plexiglass is made from oil.

 


10/30/20 08:10 AM #19298    

 

Wayne Gary

Janalu,

I have started to squeek like a guinipig since I am now in my 5th drug trial. The latest is the Maderna covid-19 trial, It has been 3 months since my first dose. No side effects excep the expected soreness at the injection for several days. They should be going for FDA approval soon.  The Maderna vaccine is a new technology.  Instead of using a killed virus they inject the RNA of the virus not any DNA.  The RNA is the messaging protein.  I relate it to and egg that has a yolk (DNA) and white (RNA).You can't get a chicken without both.  The RNA makes teh body recognioze the shell and attack it.


10/30/20 09:44 AM #19299    

 

Bob Davidson

David -- Why I want to keep doing it?  Overall, it's challenging, incredibly satisfying and like nothing else.  It's also frustrating, annoying, tedious, and infuriating.  The worst:  basically people come to me with overwhelming problems they can't solve, I do what I can to make the situation as good as it can be under our legal system, and they think what I did was easy -- once it's done, maybe I just filled out some forms, talked to another lawyer and a judge, and charged them too much money.


10/30/20 10:20 AM #19300    

Debbie Cathey (Havens)

Thank you to all who have prayed.

Janalu, it is quite obvious that Biden has nothing new to offer to stop the pandemic. Do his handlers not realize that it is actually a compliment to Trump to recommend steps already in place? Guess not. Shutting us down again...the only part of his plan that differs from the Presiden's...will do even more harm? Or, is that the plan...to bring America closer to the door of a socialistic society? I have stated it before and will continue to say it...God truly is our only hope. May people turn to Him.

10/30/20 12:53 PM #19301    

 

Wayne Gary

Debbie, Janalu

-listening to Biden he feel one size fits all.  He stated he would call all of the Goveners and try them to issue the same mandate to the entire state and if they would not then he would call the mayors to get them to issue mandates.  So NYC needs the same restrictions as rural west Texas or Wy etc.  I guess he might try to send in US marshals to every city to enforce his mask dictate.


10/30/20 01:14 PM #19302    

Kurt Fischer

Wayne.

I agree with you.  How can you create a single set of rules for NYC (27,000 per square mile) and for the 12 counties in Texas with a population density of 1 or under per square mile?


10/30/20 01:38 PM #19303    

 

David Cordell

Some oldies.

 I read that 4,153,237 people were married last year. Not to cause any trouble ... but shouldn't that be an even number? 

 I find it ironic that the colors red, white and blue stand for freedom until they are flashing behind you 

 When wearing a bikini, women reveal 90% of their bodies . Men are so polite they only look at the covered parts. 

 Relationships are a lot like algebra. Have you ever looked at your X and wondered Y? 

 America is a country which produces citizens who will cross the ocean to fight for democracy but won't cross the street to vote. 

 You know that tingly little feeling you get when you love someone? That's common sense leaving your body . 

 My therapist says I have a preoccupation with vengeance. We'll see about that! 

 I think my neighbor is stalking me as she's been Googling my name on her computer. I saw it through my telescope last night. 

 Money talks ... but all mine ever says is good-bye. 

 You're not fat, you're just easier to see. 

 If you think nobody cares whether you're alive, try missing a couple of payments. 

 I always wondered what the job application is like at Hooters. Do they just give you a bra and say, "Here, fill this out?" 

 I can't understand why women are OK that JC Penney has an older women's clothing line named, "Sag Harbor" 

 The location of your mailbox shows you how far away from your house you can go in a robe before you start looking like a mental patient 

 Money can't buy happiness, but it keeps the kids in touch. 

 The reason Mayberry was so peaceful and quiet was because nobody was married.  Andy, Aunt Bea, Barney, Floyd, Howard, Goober, Gomer, Sam, Earnest T Bass, Helen, Thelma Lou, Clara and, of course, Opie were all single. The only married person was Otis, & he was a drunk. 


10/30/20 02:11 PM #19304    

 

Steve Keene

David,


10/31/20 07:09 AM #19305    

Debbie Cathey (Havens)

Wayne, Yup.

10/31/20 11:34 AM #19306    

 

David Cordell




10/31/20 12:00 PM #19307    

 

David Cordell

Interesting day. Halloween. Blue moon (second full moon in the month). Time change.

Note: spring forward, fall back.

Did you know that the song Blue Moon was writtenin 1934 by Rodgers and Hart? Here's the Marcels' version that most of us know, followed by a more traditional version by Ella Fitzgerald.





 

 


11/01/20 09:47 AM #19308    

 

Steve Keene

Jerry,

I wonder who all the Catholics are voting for?


11/01/20 01:07 PM #19309    

 

David Cordell

Lance,

Interesting that the college dance girls can do, well, whatever, but faculty have to be hypercareful about what they say. Society has become more permissive, but faculty have had to move in the opposite direction.


11/01/20 01:24 PM #19310    

 

David Cordell












11/01/20 10:44 PM #19311    

 

David Cordell

I base this on what others have told me since I am far away from my 70s.


11/02/20 06:03 AM #19312    

 

David Cordell

Informative video, Lance. I'm sure Steve can help us with the correct pronumciation of Marathon.

Looking at Biden giving a speech on TV -- he and Bernie both look like an old guy yelling at kids to get off his lawn. Trump wouldn't yell at them. He would charge them rent.


11/02/20 08:22 AM #19313    

Kurt Fischer

I noticed this article today which discusses whether the "Trump" tax cuts which went into effect in 2018 actually significantly benefited the wealthy 1%.  I apologize for its length, but I'm including the whole article (Fox Business).

 

Andy Puzder
 
 

Democratic presidential nominee Joe Biden often talks about repealing President Trump’s “tax cuts for the wealthy,” claiming in a recent town hall that “about $1.3 trillion of the $2 trillion of the tax cuts went to the top 1/10th of 1 percent” of earners. But did the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act (TCJA) disproportionally benefit high earners? Comparing the income tax data for 2017 (the year before the TCJA became law) with 2018, clearly demonstrates that it did not.

According to the nonpartisan Tax Foundation, the TCJA reduced effective tax rates “for all income groups in 2018.” Because we have a progressive tax system, high earners pay the highest rates and received the largest rate reductions. However, lowering rates for a group of taxpayers does not necessarily reduce their share of the tax burden.

Let’s look at the TCJA’s impact on the top one percent of taxpayers. In 2018, 1.6 million taxpayers reported earning $500,000 or more. While the amount all taxpayers owed the IRS in 2018 declined by $64 billion, the amount these high earners owed increased by $16 billion.

 

Their share of the tax burden also increased. They accounted for 22 percent of total income in 2018 (a 0.5 percentage point increase over 2017) but their share of total income taxes rose to 40 percent (a 2.3 percentage point increase).

By the way, you read that right. About 1.6 million, or one percent of all taxpayers, bore 40 percent of the income tax burden due to the federal government.

So, as a result of the TCJA, high earners paid more taxes to the government, while everyone else paid less. They also paid a larger percentage of all taxes, while everyone else paid a smaller percentage.

But what about the middle class specifically? While there is no accepted definition for the “middle class,” median family income in 2018 was $63,179, so let’s look at taxpayers making between $50,000 and $100,000.

In 2018, there were about 35 million taxpayers in this bracket, an increase of roughly one million over 2017 (a growing middle class). In total, they owed $31 billion less in 2018 than in 2017. In other words, the middle class got nearly half of the $64 billion decline in taxes owed under the TCJA.

As for their share of the tax burden, it also declined. While they accounted for 22 percent of total income (roughly the same as in 2017), their share of income taxes was 13 percent (over a percentage point less than in 2017).

Let’s look at taxpayers making under $25,000. The number of taxpayers in this bracket was 52 million in 2018, a drop of 2.3 million taxpayers from 2017. In total, their tax liability declined 16 percent or $4 billion, from $25 billion in 2017 to $21 billion in 2018.

Their share of the tax burden also declined. Those taxpayers accounted for 4 percent of total income (roughly the same as in 2017) but their share of taxes was one percent (slightly less than in 2017).

So here are the results of the Trump tax cuts:

--The income tax burden for high earners increased $16 billion to 40 percent of the total owed.

--The income tax burden for middle class earners decreased by $31 billion to 13 percent of the total owed.

--The income tax burden for low wage workers decreased by $4 billion to 1 percent of the total owed.

Doesn’t sound much like a tax cut for the wealthy.

So why does Biden keep saying what he says? To quote Ronald Reagan: “It isn’t so much that liberals are ignorant. It’s just that they know so many things that aren’t so.”

One reason high earners share of the tax burden increased is that the TCJA reduced the itemized deductions they were able to claim. High earners generally benefit more from itemizing deductions. Lower earners generally benefit more from the standard deduction.

In total, the TCJA cut the amount taxpayers claimed for itemized deduction in half from $1.3 trillion in 2017 to about $650 billion in 2018.

The TCJA’s elimination of the deduction for state and local taxes (SALT) alone was responsible for $240 billion or 37 percent of that decrease. The SALT deduction primarily benefits high earners in high tax blue states. Despite claiming that he wants to increase taxes on high earners, Biden supports restoring the SALT deduction -- which would reduce them.

As for middle- and lower-wage earners, the number of tax returns claiming the standard deduction increased in 2018 by 29 percent to 134 million. Because the TCJA increased this deduction, the amount those taxpayers deducted increased $1.4 billion or 156 percent from $900 million to $2.3 billion.

In reality, thanks to the TCJA, working and middle-class Americans were earning more and keeping more of what they earned following the Trump tax cuts. That meant bigger paychecks and an easier time meeting household expenses.

As a group, high earners were paying more and bore a greater percentage of the income tax burden.

Biden can claim otherwise but that won’t make it so.


11/02/20 10:23 AM #19314    

 

Bob Davidson

A client I like (who is basing his remarks on direct experience) commented Friday:

Current political relations are like someone trapped in a relationship with an abusive spounse:  one party thinks s/he can say or do anything and it doesn't count, while the other party is a monster if s/he reacts with anger, hurt, or sarcasm.


11/02/20 11:35 AM #19315    

 

Bob Davidson

David,

Seidler used to have a calm personality and really great sense of humor -- I can see him being a super mediator.  

One of the (very few) good things about the Dems putting in their Beto-wave judges is that those people are actively hostile to shenanigans like the affluenza defense. 


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